You don’t have to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Like James Bond or Damon Salvatore in the Vampire Diaries, rather than Harold Wolowitz from The Big Bang Theory.
But don’t pursue an activity for the sole reason of impressing women. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in the way you talk about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them. If you can make a girl laugh and show you’re fun to be around, she’ll associate positive feelings with you.
Learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else. ” The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you’ll be in the eyes of women.
And with this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all of this.
So don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from? “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.
Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life. The ability to excite a girl is like a drug – give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more 😉 Ok so those are the 5 traits!
Attraction is an emotion, it’s defined by how a girl feels about you.