I need this, no, WE need this to be a PSA for guys of the internet who are doing online dating, on how to send a first message.If I was being honest with the title of this post, I probably would have called it something like “How to write a good first message according to what Single Steve thinks is a good first message, but I’m not really sure you should take my advice because I rarely get responses to my messages”.
Here are a few screen shots of a few of the last messages I sent out. And if it doesn’t, that’s fine, I get it, the attractive guy who just writes “hey” will get a response, only because he’s attractive.
She will be more likely to respond if you ask her about something mentioned in her profile, as opposed to a random question you want answered. There absolutely is, that one girl that is an egotistical maniac that loves hearing stuff like that from strangers on the internet.
But for the most part, to most women on dating websites, it comes off as corny, creepy and repetitive.
How I demonstrate I actually took the time to read her profile is by commenting on something specific mentioned in her profile (DUH).
Typically, it’s something complementary on something she has mentioned as a passion, interest or career. ” Objective 2: Show we have similar interest/things in common Okay, you’ve proven you’ve read her profile, now you need to demonstrate you actually have things in common.
Because if they actually thought that the women they were sending the messages to knew that these were generic messages, they wouldn’t be sending them right?